Broke but looking for love? Try the best free dating apps of November 2024

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OkCupid

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Tinder

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Best dating app for 20s and 30s

Hinge

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Best dating app for women and shy men

Bumble

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Pure

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Grindr

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Archer

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If you’re on a budget and things look bleak in the relationship department, don’t panic (yet). You don’t need to shell out hundreds to find a genuine connection. The best free dating apps can help you meet a partner with potential so that you don't have to die alone amongst your belongings (or pets).

Sure, you'll still have to pay for the first date (and even more if things work out), but the cost of matching, swiping, and chatting doesn't have to be yet another item on your monthly budget.

Despite what Gen Z thinks, dating apps aren’t entirely gauche. (Though some are.) If you’re worried about rejection, catfishing, and superficial matches — good on you, you should be! But that doesn’t mean all dating apps will send you down a rabbit hole of disappointment.

You just need some guidance, encouragement, and a pinch of hope. And we’re here to hook you up — no credit card required.

What dating sites are free?

Mainstream dating apps like Tinder, OkCupid, Grindr, and Hinge all have robust free membership tiers that compete with paid subscriptions. Some completely free, more niche dating apps, like Archer and Lex, are also worth checking out. It just depends on what you’re looking for and how much work you’re willing to put in to get it.

Many argue that big-name dating apps (read: Match Group apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge) are all the same and have formed one amorphous dating app. But, if you know what you’re doing — and know what to look out for — you really can find exactly what you’re looking for in the shitshow that is online dating.

Finding love (or a fun distraction) does come at a cost (e.g., vulnerability, time commitment, etc.), but it shouldn’t put you in the poor house. If it does, you’re being scammed. So, whether you're an introvert, a college student, or just looking for some steamy sexting action, we've got you covered.

Below, find our top picks for the best free dating apps. Use them to find your forever partner, a casual encounter, or something in between — all without paying a dime.

Note: All of the free dating sites below have a free membership option that gives you almost everything you need for the full experience. Though most offer paid premium memberships, these aren't apps like Match or eharmony, where you need to pay to match or chat with other users.

Our Pick

Read our full review of OKCupid.

Who it's for:

If you're tired of getting into lame-ass arguments on first dates or swiping endlessly past the misogynistic profiles on other dating apps, OkCupid might be the best dating app for you. OKC and its user base are super liberal and open-minded — it's unlikely you'll find anyone advocating for a wall or wearing a "Make America Great Again" hat here.

People interested in non-monogamy will also be happy to know that once you set that as a preference, the site will (gasp!) only show you other people interested in non-monogamy. 

Why we picked this:

Owned by Match Group, OKC delivers a seriously hip and inclusive experience for everyone without breaking the bank. It's a dating app that feels fresh, inclusive, and genuinely fun — and that's exactly why we think it's the best free dating app.

OKC's free version is surprisingly impressive: You can create a detailed profile, answer personality questions, browse potential matches, and even send messages without entering your credit card details. This is a huge win for budget-conscious singles who don't want to waste money on premium features just to get started.

Its profile-building process is more like taking a personality quiz than filling out a boring form. It asks you about everything from simple stuff like whether you smoke and drink to more intimate questions like how many dates you typically wait before sleeping with someone. (Bonus points for answering them all — the more you share, the better your matches.)

OKC has a massive user base, but you'll have the best results in well-populated areas. For city dwellers, this is fine, but singles in smaller towns may want to choose a different app. 

All in all, OkCupid is the perfect happy medium for progressive people who don't want anything to do with trendy swiping apps but don't want to feel like they're desperately looking for marriage, either.

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Tinder

Best hookup app

Read our full breakdown of Tinder vs. Bumble.

Who it's for:

Craving a quick hookup, a no-strings-attached fling, or a way to kill some time? Download Tinder. With a massive and active user base, you'll find matches anywhere, from urban areas to tiny rural towns. 

Think of it as the digital equivalent of a dive bar: a little rough around the edges, always a good time, and open all hours. If you're not looking for anything serious and want to have some fun without breaking the bank, Tinder's your best bet.

Why we picked this:

You can't talk about online dating without talking about Tinder. We all love to hate on the swipe-happy hookup app, but it's just too damn popular and effective to ignore. Plus, it's perfect for singles on a budget, thanks to its awesome free version.

Tinder's not perfect, but it's incredibly user-friendly, instantly connects you with potential partners, and has a massive pool of singles just waiting to get out there and mingle. It's no wonder it's the first app most people download when they need a quick ego boost or a no-strings-attached fling.

If you want to up your game, Tinder offers paid options like Tinder Plus, Gold, and Platinum. (Gold and Platinum have everything in Tinder Plus and more.) These premium subscriptions come with auto-renewal, but cancellation is easy — just head to the app and change your preferences.

To help you score more matches, Tinder recently rolled out a new Photo Selector feature that uses AI to pick your best pics. (We're not sure how safe this is, even if they say they delete your data.)  They've also added a verification feature requiring ID or passport photos to help weed out the fakes and catfishers.

That said, each time you open the app is a gamble, meaning your next Tinder match could be your future spouse — or it might just be some rando asking if you're DTF. That's just the unpredictability of modern love.

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Hinge

Best dating app for 20s and 30s

Who it's for:

Hinge is the best place for singles who are genuinely looking for a relationship but aren't quite ready to commit to a full-fledged dating site with endless questionnaires.

Hinge prides itself on being the app "designed to be deleted," meaning they actually want you to find a lasting connection — a good fit — so you can get off dating apps for good (and maybe finally free up some space on your phone).

Why we picked this:

We're kind of obsessed with Hinge. It's a step up from hookup apps while being the perfect level of seriousness for 20- and 30-somethings who want something real but don't need anyone asking how many kids they want just yet.

It has the modern feel and no-patience-required matching of Tinder but with the relationship (rather than hookup) mindset that sites like eharmony or Match offer. You get a limited number of likes per day, which might seem like a bummer, but it actually forces you to be more thoughtful about who you're choosing. Plus, the newly launched "Your Turn" feature nudges you to respond to messages so conversations don't fizzle out before they start. Once you have eight messages in your inbox, the app won't let you "like" or match with anyone else until you've either answered a message or unmatched with someone. This (hopefully) means fewer ghosting incidents and more chances to find your match.

If you want to see everyone who likes you or send unlimited likes, Hinge offers multiple premium subscription options, but having endless potential matches is overwhelming (and reminiscent of the more anxiety-provoking Tinder). You can also send "roses" to show other users you're really into them (it's giving major Bachelor vibes).

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Bumble

Best dating app for women and shy men

Who it's for:

Because women and non-binary people have to make the first move, Bumble is ideal for females and non-binary individuals who are sick of unsolicited messages from creepy dudes and for men who are tired of always having to initiate convo.

It's also for people who want transparency in what kinds of relationships potential matches are looking for.

Why we picked this:

Tired of stale swiping and indecisive matches? Bumble's here to shake things up. If you combined Tinder and Hinge and then required women and non-binary individuals to make the first move, you'd get Bumble. Creating a profile on Bumble is simple: share a bit about yourself, your personality, and what you're looking for (whether it's a relationship or something more casual).

Bumble's April 2024 update introduced "Opening Moves," giving women and non-binary users the option to set icebreaker questions for matches. They also added new "Dating Intentions" badges (e.g., fun, casual dates, life partner), so you're more likely to match with someone who's on the same page. In July 2024, they rolled out another new feature, which lets users report profiles suspected of using AI-generated photos and videos. So, if you come across a profile that looks a little too perfect, you can now flag it for review.

Bumble's free version is a solid choice for anyone who wants a straightforward dating app without the usual ick. It's seriously refreshing to be upfront about your dating goals right from the start, so whether you're looking for a hookup or your soulmate, Bumble's got you covered. While we've tested Bumble Premium, the free version has so much to offer, you won't feel pressured to pay just to send messages. Plus, if you're not even looking for a date and just want to expand your social circle, Bumble BFF and Bumble Bizz are awesome alternatives to Facebook or other social media sites.

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Pure

Best anonymous dating app for women

Who it's for:

Pure is a totally different kind of hookup app — it’s for anyone who’s so over Tinder and wants to explore more adventurous sexual encounters.

While Pure is for everyone, it’s only free for female users. Men are required to pay to play, but there are usually huge discounts (like 88% off or more) on the yearly subscription, so it's still a very budget-friendly option, even for the guys.

Why we picked this:

Hookup apps are kind of gross these days. Think really hard about apps designed solely for hookups — not a pretty picture, right? Pure, on the other hand, is like Tinder’s artsy cousin who lives in Brooklyn and only comes into the City to attend niche gallery openings and off-off-Broadway plays. It’s also completely free for female users (but there’s a paid subscription called Pure Queen that has premium features like incognito mode, “smart likes,” a blocklist, and more).

Pure isn’t free for everyone (men are required to pay), but we think this barrier might make it a safer place to connect with people looking for adventure. If they’re paying for it, they’ve got to be serious about what they're looking for. (You can use the code PUREFIRST if you’re new to the app and looking for a discount.)

Unlike other dating apps, Pure is based on “ads,” which you can post to your feed. You don’t even have to include a photo if you don’t want to. (You can share up to three non-nude photos via your "ad.") You can also add “turn-ons” to your feed to let other users know what you’re into and choose a “looking for” card to make your intentions clear from the get-go. Oh, and chats self-destruct in 24 hours, so that’s nice for the more discreet folks out there.

Pure also has a unique “Devil’s Bones” feature that figuratively rolls the dice and connects you with a random user. It starts with an audio chat, and if things go well, you can move to video or text chat. If you’re not into the person, just roll the dice again! And, if someone really pisses you off or pushes your boundaries, you can report and block them — Pure is big on protecting its users.

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Grindr

Best gay hookup app

Who it's for:

Grindr is the hookup app for gay men and queers who can't stand the heteronormativity of apps like Tinder or Bumble. For guys looking to have no-strings-attached fun, this is the place to be.

Let's be real: Grindr users have no chill. It's an NSFW gay paradise, and if you've been thinking that you've met every gay man in your area already, Grindr might be able to show you some newbies who you never knew existed. (Unless you're in a small town, in which case you'll probably see the same people recycled on your feed — but just wait until you go on vacation.)

Why we picked this:

Grindr is the world's biggest social networking app for gay men, helping singles and frisky couples get it on since 2009. With more than 3 million daily users, it's clear it has earned its status as one of the most popular dating apps.  

Instead of swiping right or left to match, you'll get a borderline infinite collage of people who are close location-wise, and honestly, it's super jumbled and scary to look at. It can be a pretty speedy process if you want it to be, and most users just looking to hook up will let you know right off that they're not trying to make small talk. That's not to say it's not for relationships, but at the surface level, it's ideal for quick, casual encounters. 

Be warned, however: Grindr is hella NSFW. Messages will be freaky, and you're 100% going to receive a ton of unsolicited (or solicited, if you asked) dick pics, so messaging on Grindr while you're on the train or in line at the store isn't quite as casual as other dating apps might be. You'll also get badgered for pictures, so steer clear if you're uncomfortable with that.

For those who are all about finding a partner in a more traditional, romantic way, other apps (like Archer) might be a better choice; for gay men who strictly want to hook up, this is the Holy Grail.

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Archer

Best free dating app for gay men

Who it's for:

While Grindr is our top pick for fast hookups, we actually think Archer is the best gay dating app if you're looking for love. Archer is a free dating app for gay, bisexual, and queer men. It's the relationship-focused alternative to apps like Grindr and Tinder, providing a "celebratory place" for gay men to connect and find meaningful connections.

If you're a bisexual man or someone who is HIV positive and you're tired of tip-toeing around to avoid potential hate and discrimination, Archer is your best option. (For real, even Brooklyn's oh-so-gorgeous resident bi-man and author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, Zachary Zane, swears by it.)

Why we picked this:

Launched earlier this year, Archer is a "social-first" dating app for gay and queer men. Unlike its raunchy competitor (Grindr), Archer focuses on creating a more inclusive and respectful space for its users. Since its roll-out, it's been downloaded 685,000 times.

It's 100% free to download and use (no sketchy in-app purchases or hidden fees), and it has some unique features like Smart-Blur to keep you from seeing NSFW content until you're ready and Selfie-Verify for added security.

Not only that, but Archer is determined to make STD/STI, PrEP awareness, and sexual health a priority for its users. It provides comprehensive resources, education, and support for users via the Health Hub, making it a safer and more informed platform for the LGBTQ+ community than other dating apps.

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HER

Best dating app for queer women

Who it's for:

HER is the best free dating site for queer, bisexual, trans, and lesbian women. (It's particularly useful if you're over men pretending to be women online or you're just tired of being asked for a threesome by straight couples.) The fact that it's made by queer women for queer women was a much-needed addition to the online dating world, and knowing that it's a safe space is really nice.

HER goes way past being a hookup app — that is, without adding pressure to find a romantic partner. While it can be used to couple up and find local matches that you never knew existed, you can also get involved in local LGBTQ events, read LGBTQ news, and make friends through its social-media-like feed.

Why we picked this:

We recently named HER the best overall dating app for queer women, and for so many reasons. Claiming to be the app that "introduces you to every lesbian you've ever wanted to meet," HER is the award-winning mix of dating and social media that lets you meet girls you know are girls, as it is solely for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women. The language is inclusive — it's not a lesbian site aimed at a male fantasy, thanks to the fact queer women created it — and it'll help you widen your dating pool beyond the circles you already know IRL.

Note that HER's user base isn't as large as that of mainstream apps like Tinder, so you might not have as many options as you'd like (especially if you live in a smaller town). A lot of queer women are still on apps like Tinder and Bumble, and unfortunately, on those platforms, you might run into straight girls saying that they're "interested" in women to find friends or a threesome.

Regardless, HER is making serious strides toward becoming a total boss of an app (and toward taking a ton of queer lady users away from Tinder). The low-pressure atmosphere is super inviting, and the fact that you can find a girlfriend or queer friends or attend an LGBTQ movie night, all thanks to the app, makes HER unique for multiple reasons. It just rocks — in a really gay and really fun kind of way — okay?

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Plenty of Fish

Best dating app with free chat features

Who it's for:

If you're over 35 and looking for love, Plenty of Fish (POF) might be worth a try. POF has a large user base and offers tons of ways to communicate with potential matches, making it a good option for budget-conscious singles looking for meaningful connections.

Why we picked this:

Chemistry is the name of the game here, and the multiple questionnaires are no joke. This isn't a quick five-second setup like other apps, but that's only because Plenty of Fish truly wants you to dig a bit deeper so that they can give you the best quality matches.

In the "meeting goals" section, you can specify whether you're looking for something long-term, looking to date but nothing serious, etc., and then Plenty of Fish will try to match you with others who answered similarly. The idea is to eliminate the awkward "What are we?" conversations and set you up for success by pairing you with people who share your priorities. Unlimited messaging can be nice in terms of the actual app use, but people can send you messages without matching, so if that's not your vibe, this probably isn't the app for you.

You can even add a Fish Pic badge to your profile to show off your love of fishing and the great outdoors (if that's something you're actually into), thanks to a recent partnership with Busch Light called "Reel Love." Open the app, tap the Fish Pic badge, and click "add to profile."

Ultimately, if a site's janky aesthetics (and sifting through a few fake profiles) don't bother you, POF offers a wide variety of potential mates. Whether you're super picky with your type or have no idea what you want, there's no way you won't come across a few people you find interesting. 

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How we tested

We test dating apps the way you do — by actually using them. Our team members have firsthand experience with popular apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble, among other niche dating apps.

For this roundup, we focused on the free versions of each app. We created new profiles, explored the interface, and tested key features like searching, matching, and messaging. We paid close attention to how easy it was to connect with others, the diversity of potential matches, and the overall user experience for people with different preferences and backgrounds.

Our goal is to help you find a free dating app that allows you to meet new people and form connections without paying for a subscription, no matter your background or what you're looking for.

Frequently Asked Questions


Luckily, you don’t need to pay to use dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and OkCupid. Many other apps (and old-school dating sites) are also free to download and use — paying for a subscription is completely optional.


Yes, OkCupid is free to use! We chose OkCupid as the best free dating app overall because it offers free core features like sending and receiving messages, browsing potential matches, and using its detailed profile-building tools to find compatible partners.


Facebook Dating, Plenty of Fish (POF), and OkCupid offer free messaging features, so you can chat and communicate with your matches without paying extra. Other free dating apps that offer messaging features include Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge.


Tinder is the ultimate hookup app, and it's free to use. It doesn't shy away from its reputation as a "hook-up" app, and it's widely used for casual encounters. If you're a gay man, Grindr is another popular free dating app specifically designed for hookups. Looking for more options? Check out our guide to the best dating apps for casual sex and find some no-strings-attached fun.


POF is a massive dating app with a familiar swipe-based system, just like Tinder. It's completely free to create a profile, browse, and match. You'll find tons of users, but be prepared for some ads and bot accounts.


Bumble is a female-first dating app that flips the script by empowering women and non-binary people to make the first move. Like Tinder, it uses a swipe-based system, but after a match, only women or non-binary users can initiate the conversation. In same-sex pairings, either party can initiate the conversation.

Bumble also offers features for finding friends (Bumble BFF) and networking (Bumble Bizz), making it a versatile app for building various relationships. While it's free to sign up, Bumble offers optional paid features like Bumble Boost and Bumble Premium for people who want extra perks. 


SilverSingles is the best dating app for seniors. Although it offers several premium subscription options, you can still download and use it for free to access basic features.

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Tabitha Britt
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Tabitha Britt is a freelance writer, editor, SEO & content strategist. Aside from writing for Mashable, Tabitha is also the founding editor-in-chief of DO YOU ENDO — a digital magazine by individuals with endometriosis, for individuals with endometriosis. She has a Master's degree in Creative Publishing and Critical Journalism from The New School of Social Research and is a grad of Sextech School. You can find more of her work in various online pubs, including National Geographic, Insider, Kinkly, and others.

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Stacia Datskovska
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Stacia Datskovska is an NYU journalism major (graduating this December). Her work has appeared in USA Today, Boston Globe, Teen Vogue, HuffPost, Bustle, and more. When she's not writing something or other, Stacia can be spotted crying over poetry, making a home-cooked meal, or walking on an NYC pier. For her more half-baked thoughts: @staciadats on Twitter.

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